Man in a Womens World
I am a Single father, therefore there are things I have to do that most fathers do not do. One thing I have to do is go to Girl Scouts and participate where I am 99.9% of the time the only father there. That is one example but I do find myself in situations where I am a man in what seams a Womens world. I know I am snesitive and can relate to a lot of women. I am a man raising two Girls. Braiding Hair and playing with Barbie is what I have to do. I understand that. But please remember I am a MAN.
I do not want to sit there and listen to how your sex life is boring. I do not want to hear how your husband is inadequate. I will not get married again. Not because I hate marriage, I actually think it is amazing to be married, I now know what women say behind their husbands backs. I know that society believes that Men are the “Dogs” and all they think about is sex. I have news for you I have never heard so many outlandish conversations in my life. Women not only talk about sex constantly but they understand that they can get what ever they want. They play us men like you wouldn’t believe.
I love women I really do and there are a lot of times that I have fun hanging out with the “Moms.” But I get to the point where they consider me one of the women and tell me things I do not have a need to know.
Of course, there is the curiosity that gets me. I get pulled aside because I am a “safe man” to talk to. I get the women that want a mans opinion on things. The answer I have to the most popular problem, “If your husband wants to spend time with you, it is probably because he loves you, and wants to spend time with you.” Very rarely is it just because he wants to smother you. If you are bored with your husband in bed, Experiment with him. Do not complain to your friends. Talk to him and teach him where you want to be touched.
Everything has to do with communication. The way I see it is if you can talk to me after a Girl Scout meeting you should be able to talk to your husband about it.
