Cinderella’s Father
Everyone knows the story of Cinderella. There are a few things about the story that I would like clarification on.
1. What happened to Cinderella’s Father? I know he died, but how?
2. Do you think her father knew what Cinderella’s step mother was really like?
3. Do you think her father treated her better than her step sister’s?
These are very important questions in the story. How manipulative was her step mother? Was she actually able to hide her hate from her husband?
Was Cinderella’s father a good father and protect his daughter? Was he able to show love to the children in his family that were not his blood?
makes you wonder…
- The Single Father
I remeber before my world travels began sitting at the local coffee shop with a friend gettin my dose of caffine before going to babysit my neice. Although I was still in my teens I never had enough energy to chase a two year old girl around the house. My brother was proudly wearing the military uniform at the time sitting somewhere in Asia so I felt it was my responsiblity to babysit his daughter so her mother could have an adult conversation every once in awhile. My friend was getting his caffine fix so he could go to the rock quarry over the border in Pennsylvania. “That sucks you have to babysit, this is going to be the party of the year.”
“I don’t mind, Deb is going to come over after Tiny T is asleep.” Tina was my brother Tony’s daughter, for some reason my family was always called by initials, I don’t even think my best friend even knew the name my parents gave me untill the year after graduation.
“Aww, how sweet,” the sarcastic jeer that I was expecting came a little slower than I was actually thinking it would, the caffine probably did’t hit Brian yet. “Are you and Deb going to play house tonight?”
“If I am lucky we will have a good time.”
Being a seventeen year old boy was difficult enough but throw in the fact that I spent the only Friday night off babysitting my neice really took a notch out of my social standing. No one cared of course when I usually did this because I usually got paid a case of beer that we would drink on Saturday.
“Dude, you are going to be a perfect parent someday.”
“My goal in life is to raise my children. Unfortunatly that means I will have to put up with a woman all the time.”
Everyone I knew understood that I loved hanging out with kids. Mainly because I never wanted to grow up and always liked having an excuse to go see the newest childrens movie at the theater. It was creapy if I said, “hey Deb you want to go see The Little Mermaid?” I would never get a weird look if I said, “I want to take my neice to see “The Lion King” you want to go?”
I was a Senior in High School and spent half my school day doing my practical at the Elementary school next door. I was already excepted into college for early childhood education. Whenever I wasn’t in school or working I usually had my neice with me.
After a couple more cups of coffee I said bye to my friend and headed to my babysitting duties. This was soon going to be a night that I would never forget.
- Flash Ahead
The following year my College days were over with a nice letter from the Dean of Admissions asking me not to return because of the grades I failed to receive. I still knew that I wanted to be an educator of some sort or something where I could be a role model for younger kids. Thinking I was an adult I decided it was time to get myself a career. Since I was not in school anymore I had to make a living somehow.
My real story begins after my apprenticship started and my Aircraft Maintenance career started. Once I felt that my life was on the path to adulthood I also felt as if it was time to start my family. Deb thinking I was a loser since I got kicked out of college ditched me long ago. I did meet a nice woman and 6 months later we were married. One month later we were expecting our child.
Before my 21st Birthday I was living the Dream, I had a great Job, I had a wife and I had my daughter. This life was perfect in my eyes and like the stereotypical young married couple I may have been ready to settle down in life and enjoy what I have. However, some people have different things they want in life. Within months I could see that something was wrong with my perfect life.
